All of our lives we always seem to direct our concerns toward attempting to conclude our life path or destiny in this lifetime without really knowing or understanding what this means to us. In reality, the importance lies not in trying to determine our life’s path or destiny, but, in effect, how much growth we accomplish within one lifetime. So you are not condemned if you make one or two mistakes from time to time! The importance in reality in the acceptance of the situation, then the understanding of what you’ve come to learn and move on in your life. At the end of that particular lifetime, it is measured if we succeeded to meet our intended life path and the relevance is in what amount of growth that we were capable of achieving in that lifetime.By putting fewer restrictions and pressure on ourselves and concentrating less on our life path, we can allow different experiences and the people that come into our lives to bring us our growth. Rather than comparing their signs in horoscope, astrology or numerology with our own in order to determine if they are compatible with us or not, just appreciate and understand that you needed those experiences when they came to you. Otherwise, the people were not part of your life in the first place.
In our human level, it is normal to push away certain experiences or people that we encounter in our lives, a common reaction out of a lack of security in ourselves. That is, in reality, the fear of the unknown in any situation that is not familiar to us. Think of it in that way. If we need the experience, then that is enough reason to accept and learn to deal with it in the first place without questioning its impact or value in our life. Just accept it as part of your growth.
GROWTH AND OUR LIFE PATH ARE NOT THE SAME,
AND WE CANNOT LOOK AT THEM FROM THE SAME PERSPECTIVE.
Try to look at it from my point of view at the moment. Growth is defined in such a way that for the evolution of a soul, that soul requires the capacity to evolve under specific learning experiences in order to attain a higher level of wisdom, as well as being a companion to its fellow souls without placing judgment or by discriminating people for their skin color, religion or ethnic background.
Our life path is a set of goals that we put to ourselves in an intended direction that should lead us to reach our highest possible level of growth.
HOWEVER, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ONE WAY
OR ONE DIRECTION THAT CAN LEAD US TO OUR
MOST DESIRED LIFE PATH.
We can take any direction in life and always have use of our free will in our own discretion. It is important to remember that the direction will only determine the amount of growth that we accomplish from such a decision we took in our life when we do use our free will.As an example of that, I am not sure if you watch “The Price is Right” on TV? When a contestant goes on stage, and they have 3 doors in front of them to choose from, DOOR #1, DOOR #2 and DOOR #3. The contestant is excited about being there in the first place! When looking back at the audience to see his wife or her husband pointing with their finger at door1, 2 or 3, providing their opinion of what they think their partner should pick. Finally, they decided on door #3!... It is here that you should understand what I discussed previously, in terms of the amount of growth we might achieve and under what circumstances it will occur. If that contestant chooses DOOR #1 there was a car valued at 15,790$, behind DOOR #2 there was bedroom furniture valued at 7,238$, and DOOR #3 there a cruise valued at 11,877$. As you can see, with whichever door you choose you are still going to win and have an experience with those prizes, yet, each one had a different feeling and value, but only in percentage. You might feel somewhat sad sometimes that you did not choose the door that your intuition was leading you to choose.
But at the end, you still did not lose as you can see. As we can compare all of that into our lives and whatever direction you choose to take is still right. The only change is the difference of experiences that each direction will bring us in return, and the amount of growth they provide for us. With that conclusion, regardless of whether our experience is good or bad, in either case, it is still growth.
AS WE CAN SEE THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG HERE JUST LEARN TO TRUST YOURSELF AND ACT UPON WHATEVER FEELS RIGHT FOR YOU.
OUR BIGGEST FEAR IN LIFE IS IN ACCEPTING THE NECESSITY TO MAKE A CHANGE.
CHERISH THAT LIFE AND JUST TRY TO MAKE THE BEST OF IT AND HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE.